The Rest in Peace Thread (RIP)

**Frownland** · 03-17-2015, 03:59 PM

I'm offended that this stupid conversation has gone on for so long.

Key · 03-17-2015, 05:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Frownland

I'm offended that this stupid conversation has gone on for so long.

You're not alone. I've already stated that I'm not trying to offend anyone yet I seem to be doing so.

**Frownland** · 03-17-2015, 05:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Ki

You're not alone. I've already stated that I'm not trying to offend anyone yet I seem to be doing so.

**** you, you insensitive prick.

Trollheart · 03-17-2015, 05:54 PM

It's pretty strange how this all came about because of a simple note of condolence to someone, a missed part of a post on my behalf and then a big ****storm blew up. But I think it's important to note that when Ki says he is not trying to offend anyone, he should realise that he is, by (presumably unintentionally, cos I don't believe he'd do such a thing on purpose) seeming to trivialise people's attempts to get over death and loss, and not realising that what he's saying, as I quoted, is a pretty gross insult to those who have lost people in their lives.

Ki, don't you understand? You can't say "I don't mean to offend anyone" when you're saying "after x amount of days/years you should be over your loss". It just doesn't work. You are offending people. You're offending me, and you're offending Dulce, and JTF and others. It's quite surprising that you would be so insensitive, as I know you're not like this. You really need to keep such opinions to yourself; it's way too touchy and personal an issue to be telling people how and when they should be over the death of a loved one.

Disappointed, man. Disappointed.

**Frownland** · 03-17-2015, 05:59 PM

How about dropping it instead of spouting the same **** over and over again?

Urban Hat€monger ? · 03-17-2015, 06:00 PM

Can people be offended elsewhere outside this thread please.

Don't want to hear another word on the subject.

Justthefacts · 03-17-2015, 07:07 PM

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Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ?

Can people be offended elsewhere outside this thread please.

Don't want to hear another word on the subject.

Last word.

Key · 03-17-2015, 07:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Frownland

How about dropping it instead of spouting the same **** over and over again?

Quote:

Originally Posted by Urban Hat€monger ?

Can people be offended elsewhere outside this thread please.

Don't want to hear another word on the subject.

I'd like to add that if people feel I offended them, they can PM me. I've no problem sending an apology if necessary.

DwnWthVwls · 03-17-2015, 07:44 PM

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Originally Posted by Trollheart

There is a difference, man, and some day it may all become clear to you. Death is not something you just get over like that. It takes years, and even now it can bring tears in the right (?) circumstances...

Some people just handle it differently. It's a lot harder to get over someone who is still alive not being in your life (when you want them to be) than someone who dies, imo.

It's part of life, just gotta accept it. I don't see a reason to dwell on the dead, seems like a waste of time.

Edit: so apparently this is a heated topic, I didn't read all the bull**** before posting. O, well, I'm not deleting this., you can just ignore me.

Justthefacts · 03-17-2015, 07:47 PM

Guys, I already said last word.

03-17-2015, 03:59 PM	#941 (permalink)
Frownland SOPHIE FOREVER Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: East of the Southern North American West Posts: 35,548	I'm offended that this stupid conversation has gone on for so long. __________________ Studies show that when a given norm is changed in the face of the unchanging, the remaining contradictions will parallel the truth. d e a f b o x

03-17-2015, 05:54 PM	#944 (permalink)
Trollheart Born to be mild Join Date: Oct 2008 Location: 404 Not Found Posts: 26,970	It's pretty strange how this all came about because of a simple note of condolence to someone, a missed part of a post on my behalf and then a big ***storm blew up. But I think it's important to note that when Ki says he is not trying to offend anyone, he should realise that he is, by (presumably unintentionally, cos I don't believe he'd do such a thing on purpose) seeming to trivialise people's attempts to get over death and loss, and not realising that what he's saying, as I quoted, is a pretty gross insult to those who have lost people in their lives. Ki, don't you understand? You can't say "I don't mean to offend anyone" when you're saying "after x amount of days/years you should be over your loss". It just doesn't work. You are* offending people. You're offending me, and you're offending Dulce, and JTF and others. It's quite surprising that you would be so insensitive, as I know you're not like this. You really need to keep such opinions to yourself; it's way too touchy and personal an issue to be telling people how and when they should be over the death of a loved one. Disappointed, man. Disappointed. __________________ Trollheart: Signature-free since April 2018

03-17-2015, 05:59 PM	#945 (permalink)
Frownland SOPHIE FOREVER Join Date: Aug 2011 Location: East of the Southern North American West Posts: 35,548	How about dropping it instead of spouting the same **** over and over again? __________________ Studies show that when a given norm is changed in the face of the unchanging, the remaining contradictions will parallel the truth. d e a f b o x

03-17-2015, 06:00 PM	#946 (permalink)
Urban Hat€monger ? The Sexual Intellectual Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Somewhere cooler than you Posts: 18,605	Can people be offended elsewhere outside this thread please. Don't want to hear another word on the subject. __________________ Urb's RYM Stuff Most people sell their soul to the devil, but the devil sells his soul to Nick Cave.