My deepest sympathies.
Stay strong for your children, Lee. They need you now more than ever.
Don't ever feel guilty for moaning about stupid crap either because you're right, it really doesn't matter.
If you ever need to talk you've got my email. Don't hesitate to contact me.

My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. God bless you all.

R.I.P. Elaine

I echo the thoughts of each member. Deeply sorry for your loss.

I can't imagine how you must be feeling. My deepest condolences.

I'm so sorry for you man. You must be devastated.
I wish you and your kids every bit of strength there is to get through the time that lies ahead.

Perhaps needless to say, but if you ever feel like talking,
I'm sure all of us are willing to listen.

And you're right. Life is short.
Your words are very true, and beautiful.

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. My sincerest condolences to you and your family.

Lee, I am shocked and so incredibly sorry to hear this. My heart goes out to you and yours. I know I'm just some guy on the internet but I do truly consider you a friend and if there is anything I can do help you, or just help take your mind off things, please let me know.

I am extremely sorry for your loss. Stay strong. You will be in all of our hearts.

Whatever the relationship, death is never easy. I am sorry that Elaine is no longer with you, Lee.

Whenever I've lost a loved one, I've made a concious decision to carry them with me as much as I can. To think about things they taught me, or just things that always inspired me to recognize that I have it pretty good. This is pretty lame, but sometimes I make my passwords to things phrases they'd use, or things we had in common so I'm forced to remember them every day.

I hope she stays in your heart forever, Lee.

I never really know what to say in the face of loss, being someone who doesn't handle sympathy well, so I'll share with you the words that helped me, and hope that they bring comfort.

It will get easier with time.

Stay strong Lee. this is a terrible loss, and I'm genuinely sorry for you, and utterly shocked.