She just got her feelings hurt, you were NTA in this situation at all. A month is the amount of time it takes to feel things out, and a phone call is absolutely acceptable. She’s just trying to do the displaced emotions thing of making you feel bad because she feels bad. Find someone with more emotionally regulated/intelligent.

a single mom 33 years old with 2 kids from 2 different baby daddies

what do u think her mindset and attitude is on her life and future ..???

like it seems men have broke her heart so much she is border line insane or turned lesbian ..??? and it seems like in her mind its FUdge everbody her kids is the only thing that matters ..???


but is that truly the case ..???

Wtf are you talking about?

Exactly what I was thinking but nice to hear it from someone else. :beer:

Yes you did nothing wrong. It's understandable that she's hurt, but she shouldn't have reacted like that.
Nothing wrong with a phone call either. I tried to avoid doing it over the phone when breaking up with my ex, which means it took way too long before I had the opportunity to do it, and that was more hurtful in the end. Calling her would have been much better

Thanks, Marie!
While I know that I did nothing wrong and I understand where her reaction is coming from, I really hate hurting people and it makes me feel better to at least see my stance confirmed by you guys.

Well, you've been seeing each other for a month. It's not like she spent half her life with you. Her reaction is completely incomprehensible to me, as you actually did tell her "early on".

I mean, I did have some doubts for at least two weeks before that but I still wanted to see where it goes and whether my doubts might be quelled when I knew her better. That's what the initial trial period is for, after all.

Did you at least get to bust?

Sure, a lot.