ever heard of bisexuals? it sounds like you DO in fact have a problem with homosexuality...and it bugs the hell out of me when people say crap like " men who are willing to take it up the ass lose dignity" and then try to convince me they're not homophobic....i would respect you a little more if you weren't being such a goddamn hypocrite...

Adidasss, we've already figured out that Raine is an angry, raging homophobe. Trying to talk to her about it is like trying to tell a christian that God doesn't exist. Don't worry though, every time she makes one of her homophobic posts (or generally a pointless rant in general) you can be sure that she's losing respect from the rest of the forum.

i dont give a damn where he takes it or from who.. if he cheated hes a dog either way.

naturally...but it begs the question...why were you with him in the first place? naturally attracted to assholes are we?

Steady Marijan, Spike wasn't the one who was gay-bashing. Having said that, I'm only disagreeing with your tone of typing, as I think it's fair to say that a large proportion of women actually seem to prefer men who are complete bastards. A lot of them should probably put that on their list of desired attributes... 'must act like a complete prick towards me, my family and all of my friend - including the ones he ends up bedding'.

i'm just asking, i wasn't being a prick...i think it's fucked and i'm sorry she ended up with a guy that cheated on her ( regardless of whom with ), i'm just wondering if there were any clues that this guy could actually do that sort of thing, or was he a really nice and polite fellar...?
plus, cheating on a woman that's carrying your child....i don't think you can go lower than that...

Sorry guys. And more importantly adidass. I didn't mean to come off as a *** basher.

don't apologize for your thoughts....i'm just sorry i didn't pick up on it sooner...i'm not insulted by what you said, just a little annoyed with the "i'm not a homophobe" statement....

I can't afford to be a homophobe.
Do you know how many of the best dancers are lesbians?

And homophoia to the extent it has reached in America is rather insane.

I think my biggest fear concerning homophobia, is that a guy I date will cheat (not dump) for someone of the same gender. That'll probably break whatever self esteem I have. The way i see it, you're saying that no matter how much I loved you, or worked at our relationship it could've never worked out because I can't change me sex.
Granted if the guy cheated on me with another girl I'd still feel devastated but . . .

Guys that cheat are scum bags period. :) And girls that cheat are scum bags as well. :)

Which does, of course, making you immune to hating *** males.

So you're biphobic as well?