So is July officially the month for contradictory statements?

Well I'm NOT racist. I'm not discriminatory in any way. But I would never DATE anyone outside my race. Dating is not the only kind of friendship and many girls are uncomfortable dating outside their race, they just dont admit it. But I dont like see black guys and just to conclusions about them. I'm not a racist.

You just did it again!

Don't worry, this is just an academic complaint really. Saying that you would treat one set of people any differently based on their race is discriminatory, but that doesn't mean its unnecessarily prejudiced (in my opinion). If, from past experience, you've found there's something about certain cultures which would make it difficult for you to be in a relationship with somebody from that culture... or perhaps you tend to find men of certain ethnicities more physically attractive than others... then that's fair enough but I'm pretty sure it can still be classified as discrimination. I'd say that I discriminate against white women in the same way and I'm perfectly happy to call it such!

Yeah, I think that's true.

thing i want in a guy:
will watch the footbal game with me
looks are not everything, i want a personality
someone who like me for being me;)
who doesn't mind "expirementing" with me
who doesn't mind me keeping a sword in my room

Passionate
Can cut loose and just be himself
Doesnt have to be too mature
Really funny
Treats me right
One-girl man
Sex can be on his mind, but he still trys *lol*
Cute(you gotta be good-looking to ME)
Descent body(not to big, not to little. Prefer abs at the most!!Athletic!!)
Clothes(thuggish or Cool/Casual)
Not straight-down stupid
He can look at girls, but not infront of/around me
^cause it'll only be fair

Not all girls though.
And I just wanted to say, I love your avatar.

heres what i look for:


Urban Hatemonger ;)

Yeah, not all but quite a lot really are uncomfortable. And thanks.



To add to all the above.......a guy that is NOT AFRAID to go searching for a girl's weakness.....but knows that no means no. And can figure out and use the above mentioned weakness(s) against the girl.

ditto here spike

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