Well looks really don't matter to me. It's pure coincidence that all the guys I've dated I just happened to be physically attracted to.
But my dream guy is at least four inches taller than me, slim waisted, has brown (lack) hair, has broad shoulders, is not anorexic skinny, shouldn't be overweight, and has to have all of his teeth, all of his hair, a nice smile, laughlines are ok, and that's about it. Skin color/race really doesn't bother me.

This person has to have a backbone. I have no desire for guys that cry or break down ate every turn, panics at the sight of blood, and thats orta thing. So I guess what I mean to say is this particular guy has to be level headed and capable of thinking under pressure.

I'd like to date someone that is fairly intelligent. I've decided that this guy must be literate in at least one language (not encessairly English). Ebonics does not count. This person should be good at math.

You must definitely be athletic. I won't budge on this requirment.

You must be funny. Not laugh out loud hilarious or anything but you should definitely have a sense of humor. If you can't take a joke then you can't handle life with me. Most of my life is one big joke anyway.

You have to be competitive. I'm a rather competitive person, I expect my partner to be. I really don't think I could tolerate it if my partner is the last man to finish soemthing he wanted to win because he was lazy, didn't care or had this nonchalant attitude. Anything worth having is worth fighting for. And this isn't limited to say getting a job, this is for all things including but not limited to sports.

I also don't want to date someone who goes easy on people, including me. If we play vid games, don't let me win. I wanna win on my own talent, not your generosity.

You should be easy to talk to. Granted I'm not gonna tell you that my boss hurt my feelings each and everytime; that's what girlfriends and coworkers are there for. But every so often, it would be nice to just open up to you about something that i think is a sensitive issue and is worth getting out. Something I wouldn't wanna share with my friends because they just don't know me the way that you do (or should).

You should (but it isn't necessary) be patient. I am not a patient person. I hate waiting for things. I'm more of make something happen person. So if you're the same way I'll understand. But I would imagine that it would be nice to meet somebody that didn't always feel the need to rush to do things. Someone that could calmly wait for traffic to speed up. Stuff like that.

You don't have to be a neat freak, becuase I keep a tight ship, no matter what. But it would be nice if you could pick up your own things, be able to put stuff a way after you use it and you should know how to work a vaccum cleaner.

You must be aggressive. (This sorta goes with being competitive) If you don't want it badly enough and show that you want it badly enough, why should I care that you want it at all?

I would never want to have to be involved in an abusive relationship so I guess this is more of warning than anything else. Hurt me in anything large or small and I will kill you. Simply because i have too much respect for myself.

Other miscellaneous things:
You shouldn't be a heavy drinker. Smoking I'm kinda iffy about. if you smoke two packs a day, you should form a really close relationship with a nicotine patch simply because I myself am trying to quit and I don't think you'd eb good for me. You should be able to dance, and if not, at least make the attempt. Should be good with kids because I have a lot of younger sibs and too many baby cousins to count. You have to be family oriented. You should have meat on your bones because I'm a biter. For this reason I guess it would be premeditated murder for me to date someone that's anemic because i am known for drawing blood. :)
Also tatoos in private areas are not recommended. Only because I imagine sex would be more painful than pleasurable for you.

To be honest, I need someone who thinks I'm great, funny, intelligent, cute, everything. Compliments me a lot, and makes nasty remarks sometimes, but without meaning it. (So I can give him a tender bitch slap). Omg. Teh Ego-ness. :')

And I have to like his friends, music taste, clothing, and he must be able to cope with my blabbering and too high imagination. xD

^ Same. I'm a guy, but still...

The Raine-story? Or my egoproblem?

Egoproblem, but its no problem, we just don't settle for less :)

I always fall for my friends. Generally I want guys to be are smart, funny, cute, and easy to talk to. I like the dorky ones.

i like guys who are like me...

honest and sensitive. machoness is not sexy.. he's romantic and sweet but with a obscure sense of humour. My ideal guy is eclectic, intellectual and arty, an english student... a music snob, a book snob, a movie snob, highly opinionated views on society and the arts. we have common interests yet he is able to get me into new things. he's not into money, or football, or cars or clubs or drugs... oh, and his name is Chris and hes my boyfriend, wooo :D

I like boys who are funny. I'm not really into all the romantic stuff, so I don't like soppy, emotional boys. They also have to have a mind of their own. It is good if they like good music, I like to talk a lot about it. Oh, and long hair :)

You're a girl! :eek:

Phew, I feel better about myself now. :)

IF you weren't for having some sorta icon to identify the gender of a user, I'm pretty sure you are now. :)

haha..

i could be a homosexual guy? :P

^Oh yeah ^^ So are you?

im not a guy, no.

or homosexual.

hmmm, he has to be nice, smart , look nice(by that i mean keep himself clean), be kinda tall(i'm quite short ) enjoy football(by that i mean soccer for you americans, american football is for pussies), likes friendly competion and that i'm just about everything they look for in a woman

haha, i'm a chick to but ya know that already;)

i soo missed this thread at the beinging

I can't believe that no one has come up with the most obvious answer to this question: To be just like MURDER JUNKIE http://i50.photobucket.com/albums/f3...p/badteeth.gif

This could be for the win


Penis?

Take it from a married man, they could care less if you had a penis. It's generally a short term fascination anyway, sorry to have burst your bubble.

They just have to go and make things complicated:p:

BTW fixed it for you :p:

So do looks matter, so long as the guy has long hair? or is long hair optional but a plus?

But for a fact you go for guys that are:
funny
not emotional
independent


That isn't much to go on

I just think long hair is hot, doesn't really matter.

I'm not looking for someone to marry, I want a summer fling :p:

You want a summer fling
but what you need is a f*ck buddy

I don't want to be a slut! :p:

Find a guy that you think is attractive.
Lay down the rules and nature of the relationship.
If he agrees, you have a f*ck buddy. (Just ONE)
And then you're set.

And try to be as discreet as possible and no one will know and your unlsutty reputation will be protected. :)

Perfect plan. All I need is a willing guy.

Any guy would be willing

So far, only 18 year olds, with girlfriends, who chicken out.

So. . .
look harder . . . :(

I really have no idea how ot handle this sorta thing. I could go outside dressed rather scantly clad and be able to find somebody screw if i really wanted.

Maybe it has to do with location

Boys here suck.

Also, I'm super fussy.

Well if boys there suck you shouldn't have too much of a problem. It means they're doing something right with their mouth

And what's there to fuss about?
Unless he wants you to bend over and you'd rather you did something else, I don't see how you can have too much fuss over choosing a f*ck buddy.

Although now that I'm eating it doesn't sound like too much of a safe idea.
Especiallyw he you consider allt he STD's circulating

Maybe you should just finda boyfriend (no matter what he looks like) and make sure he's overly horny. It's a lot safer.

it annoys me how it seems like you'e forcing your slutty way of life down her throat. poor lass.
but whatever, she might be perfectly happy with it.
an a slightly related note, one of my best friends recently FAILED at fuck buddies. :)
i shouldnt be happy, but, twas for the best.
it was screwy.

Haha it's OK Raine, I appreciate any help :)

I don't lead a slut life.
I just happen to have some attire in my wardrobe that might be becoming for a slut.
Thank you very much

it just seems like she's encouraging sex without responsibilities, works for me...

I'm in a monogamous relationship right now.
I trust my boyfriend.
I distrust the world and any other girl he has ever slept with until he takes a STD test.
And I know he isn't sleeping with anyone else.
So yeah, not only will I have sex with him because he's capable, I'll also have sex with him because I trust him and know that he isn't gonna give me an STD.
It' not like I'm trying to encourage unsafe sex or anything.
Please, use a condom, help prevent the spread of std's and if you're in a monogamous relationship and trust your partner, then . . . have fun getting some later on tonight. :laughing:
Whatelse is there to do?

That is all

skinny.
cute face.
dark hair.
dark eyes.
somewhat tan.
tight clothing.
good music taste.
atleast 5'10.
17 or older.

those are my standards.

Eeek how skinny?

i think you mistook what i said, i meant without the responsibilities a relationship brings but ok...:S