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Originally Posted by Trollheart (Post 1921517)

It just seems like this is the wrong forum (!) to be doing such things. I don't know; maybe I'm in the minority here, but it gives me a kind of disquieting feeling, like we're peering in your window or something.

Which would be the right forum Troll? I've been a member here for years, and consider some of you E-buds, and I'm sharing with my buds.

And your not peering into my window. I'm opening the shades to share what I'm going through.

Sorry if it bugs some of you folks, but I've been dealing with this **** 24/7 for almost a month now and venting is helpful.

Youre good bro

Nobody want to dis you

Just trying to look out

You do you

Giving one last update (in case I end up in a psych ward) because I won't be able to bear talking about it after this for a while: still no major changes. Blood platelet count dropped again. I keep thinking about that scene in season 1 of broadchurch where she's staring at the sea and saying "I feel very far away from myself." I feel the same. I'm not here. Neither is he and I cannot find him. Keep having memory lapses. I don't know what to with my hands. Inexplicable gnawing guilt. Im playing movies he liked as a kid on my phone so that there's warm familiar sounds. As soon as I started playing a clip from Big Rock Candy Mountain, one of the characters said something like "I'm waiting for you" and I just lost it. No one needs to respond to this, I know there's nothing one can say, I'm just giving an update before I sign off for the week and brace myself for this next crucial 24 hour period. Pls leave cat gifs and amvs in my inbox/profile page if you feel so inclined

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Originally Posted by Kiiii (Post 1921521)

I'm not usually bothered by what Chula says on this forum like most other people are, and this is no exception. I don't really see a problem with how Chula is expressing his emotions over this, because let's face it, who of us all have gone through a divorce? I'd say not very many. There isn't really any way anybody is supposed to cope with this kind of thing, so let Chula just do what he feels is best for his own mental health. I know you guys jump on Chula all the time, but give him a break just this one time. The man is going through a pretty rough time and all he's looking for is support.

I kinda agree, venting along with sympathy and empathy from people you know seems like it can go along way when dealing with a hard situation, even if it is on the Internet.

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Originally Posted by Chiomara (Post 1921544)

Giving one last update.

Be as well as you can be Chio! (e-hug)

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Originally Posted by Chula Vista (Post 1921554)

Be as well as you can be Chio! (e-hug)

Church

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Originally Posted by Chiomara (Post 1921544)

Sincerely hoping for some good news.

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Originally Posted by Ziggy (Post 1921545)

I kinda agree, venting along with sympathy and empathy from people you know seems like it can go along way when dealing with a hard situation, even if it is on the Internet.

I just feel like it's less of a situation about trying to reason with Chula and it's more of a situation in regards to his emotions so I think it's better to give him a bit of support in this scenario. Feel free to reach out, Chula, if need be.

You can sing Dixie Chicks to a baby and they won't judge you