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Old 07-06-2022, 05:22 PM   #1431 (permalink)
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I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled.
All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males.

Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.
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Old 07-06-2022, 05:27 PM   #1432 (permalink)
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I often wonder why hetro males of a certain kind get their knickers in a knot over things like this. I suspect they’re struggling to pretend it doesn’t turn them on. I also wonder how much they know about the history of English theatre where for centuries boys played the role of females in more than just Shakespeare.

https://www.starobserver.com.au/news...-school/214312

Putting this in an historic (hysteric?) context :- https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine...nd-gay/513812/

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Old 07-06-2022, 11:48 PM   #1433 (permalink)
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I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled.
All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males.

Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.
Damn that black mass story is creepy af.

I also avoided being molested myself but had a very close call. Basically some old dude lured me into a stairwell and then chickened out or something. The full story is on my blog.

But yeah I've known people who it happened to like my friends siblings. His younger brother and sister. We all knew their dad beat the mom and the kids but my friend also told me his siblings were sexually abused. Which explained their overtly sexual behavior at such a young age.

Also my other friends younger brother. We knew his family for years and were briefly living with them in this ****ty duplex after my parents split... And this Mexican day labor looking dude molested my friends 4 year old brother one day in broad daylight. Just pulled his pants down and started fondling him. My friend grabbed a broomstick and beat him over the head with it till he ****ed off.
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I escaped anything like molestation of the physical kind but was thoroughly traumatised witnessing what went on behind the scenes in the Cathedral were I was a pipe organ student. Invited to a weekend away at the seaside by a group of priests I was offered the ‘privilege’ of being the naked offering on their domestic black mass alter. I fled.
All this had a profoundly negative effect on my view of religion but not male/male sexuality. When I hit 14 I knew I was attracted to males of my age and indulged. It was only very good luck that saved me from potential disaster when I soon discovered a strong attraction to older males.

Apologies to those of you who’ve read me on this subject previously.
Black Mass huh? Surprised it wasn't a reference to a big black dick you took marching with MLK.
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Old 07-07-2022, 01:51 AM   #1435 (permalink)
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I often wonder why hetro males of a certain kind get their knickers in a knot over things like this. I suspect they’re struggling to pretend it doesn’t turn them on. I also wonder how much they know about the history of English theatre where for centuries boys played the role of females in more than just Shakespeare.

https://www.starobserver.com.au/news...-school/214312
The same guys calling gay and trans people groomers on Twitter say sh*t like "I wish I had this teacher as a kid" in response to stories about female teachers raping their students and "Start the clock" when commenting on pictures of underage girls.

So to answer your question, projection, it's always been projection.
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Old 07-07-2022, 12:23 PM   #1436 (permalink)
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I've always liked designer Tom Ford as a person and followed his interviews. I had no idea that Tom's husband, Richard Buckley, had passed away. So sad to learn of this - I greatly admired their relationship.


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The same guys calling gay and trans people groomers on Twitter say sh*t like "I wish I had this teacher as a kid" in response to stories about female teachers raping their students and "Start the clock" when commenting on pictures of underage girls.

So to answer your question, projection, it's always been projection.
that's more because we don't take female predators seriously. If it's a male teacher with a female student people will lose their ****.
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Intuitively I feel the same way those men feel though.... Even if it's wrong. How are you supposed to sit here and feel bad for the kid when you are secretly jealous?

Also notice it's only the hot teachers who seem to get busted... Probably because the hotter the perp is the harder it is for the "victim" to keep their mouth shut.

Even if the gender roles are swapped and it's a hot gay teacher and a student... Sorry but that doesn't feel like as much of an accomplishment. Gay men are the most down to **** breed of people I've ever encountered by far.
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Also notice it's only the hot teachers who seem to get busted... Probably because the hotter the perp is the harder it is for the "victim" to keep their mouth shut.
That’s a point I hadn’t considered. I suspect in lots of cases it’s true. There’s an aspect of the last few decades exposing the sexual exploitation of children. Some calculating brats have learnt to make false accusations against teachers unless they are given better grades. A recent case here was thrown out of court when the school presented security surveillance videos covering the claimed assaults.
There’s another creepy side to all this. Psychiatrists tell us same sex exploration/experimentation is common with young males who in later years discover they’re not into it. They make themselves feel better by pretending they were forced into such scenarios. The problem we now have with all this is it’s becoming more difficult to catch the real offenders. One of the best solutions we have is providing the young with realistic, but not too scary, sex education at an earlier age than is now common in many ‘christian’ countries. As to christians and their place in all this, don’t get me started ! And before anyone jumps on me for that comment islam and other faiths are equally guilty.


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Even if the gender roles are swapped and it's a hot gay teacher and a student... Sorry but that doesn't feel like as much of an accomplishment. Gay men are the most down to **** breed of people I've ever encountered by far.
Can’t help wondering if you’re speaking from experience. Things changed somewhat when AIDS hit the scene. Many who previously were ( there’s no other word) sluts toned down their activities. With the false security AIDS ‘cures' have provided defences are down again.

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Gay men are the most down to **** breed of people I've ever encountered by far.
Speaking from personal experience ? ? ?
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