And abusers and victimizers often have an uncanny knack for spotting vulnerable people.

Yes exactly, I talked about that in my post in here before my last one. About how they can sense them from miles away.

In one book I read about Ted Bundy it said he could sometimes temporarily win over trained professionals who already knew what he had done.

Legit the worst thing you've ever said. Like, jesus christ.
WHY ARE MEN?!?!?!?

That doesn't surprise me. Or it can be a case of almost split personalities, my ex-stepfather was like that. The guy switched between charm incarnate (which I'm pretty sure was genuine most of the time) and scary devil in an uncanny way. And there's no way anyone who knows him superficially can tell
like he said, it's just personal bitterness, but he has no business trying to spread it. Ffs listen to Hawk and don't give up on love and women, Elph.

PSA: Unless I say specifically that I am needing advice (which I won't ever do, I don't trust any of you) don't assume that when I pose questions or share things from my experience that I am having trouble with something, or that I'm asking for your input on my relationships, or that I have some issue that you're going to be the one to solve lol. I was just asking for different perspectives I DON'T NEED YOUR ADVICE yall constantly read me wrong anyway.

God, yes so many are like that. Literally my dad (a human disaster)

There’s women ****tier than elph.

I’d rather elph see it’s not true than railroad him.

Unfortunately a lot of people have that misconception.

ok?

Or do, for their sake