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WWWP 11-25-2020 12:41 PM

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Originally Posted by goldendoodle (Post 2146629)
God, yes so many are like that. Literally my dad (a human disaster)

My dad too! Omg queer Bad Dad Club

OccultHawk 11-25-2020 12:42 PM

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Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2146628)
PSA: Unless I say specifically that I am needing advice (which I won't ever do, I don't trust any of you) don't assume that when I pose questions or share things from my experience that I am having trouble with something, or that I'm asking for your input on my relationships, or that I have some issue that you're going to be the one to solve lol. I was just asking for different perspectives I DON'T NEED YOUR ADVICE yall constantly read me wrong anyway.

I’ll be sure make a clear distinction in the future then

... damn girl

goldendoodle 11-25-2020 12:44 PM

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Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2146634)
My dad too! Omg queer Bad Dad Club

queer Bad Dad Club!!!! Literally. We all need matching jackets with that emblazoned on the back.

Marie Monday 11-25-2020 12:45 PM

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Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2146628)
PSA: Unless I say specifically that I am needing advice (which I won't ever do, I don't trust any of you) don't assume that when I pose questions or share things from my experience that I am having trouble with something, or that I'm asking for your input on my relationships, or that I have some issue that you're going to be the one to solve lol. I was just asking for different perspectives I DON'T NEED YOUR ADVICE yall constantly read me wrong anyway.

there's a thin line between different perspectives and advice, tbf. Just keep in mind that no one is trying to patronise you, it's mostly caring.

OccultHawk 11-25-2020 12:48 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2146638)
yeah well you don't know yet

What does this mean?

WWWP 11-25-2020 12:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Marie Monday (Post 2146637)
there's a thin line between different perspectives and advice, tbf. Just keep in mind that no one is trying to patronise you, it's mostly caring.

I don't feel patronized at all, I'm just communicating that I don't like it. I think you can have a dialogue about pretty much anything without offering unsolicited advice. I was really just curious what others would have to say, but it turned into me having to clarify misinterpreted information about the girl I'm seeing. I thought I worded my question in a way that made it clear it was about comparing opinions, not seeking advice. It's all good, I'm just setting that boundary.

WWWP 11-25-2020 12:52 PM

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Originally Posted by OccultHawk (Post 2146639)
What does this mean?

That I'm "new" to women I think lol

But what do I know, I'm just damaged goods.

OccultHawk 11-25-2020 01:04 PM

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Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2146642)
That I'm "new" to women I think lol

But what do I know, I'm just damaged goods.

Since when did men stop getting beat up and ****?

OccultHawk 11-25-2020 01:07 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2146644)
I'm not advocating for writing anyone off, damaged people should be friends

Are you trying to troll?

Marie Monday 11-25-2020 01:12 PM

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Originally Posted by WWWP (Post 2146641)
I don't feel patronized at all, I'm just communicating that I don't like it. I think you can have a dialogue about pretty much anything without offering unsolicited advice. I was really just curious what others would have to say, but it turned into me having to clarify misinterpreted information about the girl I'm seeing. I thought I worded my question in a way that made it clear it was about comparing opinions, not seeking advice. It's all good, I'm just setting that boundary.

Of course, I know that offering unsolicited advice is generally not a good idea. This place doesn't bring out the most subtle communication skills in people though. Cheers for setting boundaries.

@everyone, keep it cool


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