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Frownland 11-26-2020 10:41 AM
Duh, dicks don't grow in a vacuum (that rips them off, trust me on this one).

WWWP 11-26-2020 11:38 AM
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Originally Posted by jwb (Post 2146841)
It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.

I've had this same complaint from multiple women. "I just wanted you to listen, not solve the problem."

I guess I get the frustration on their end but on my end it's why even bring it up if you don't want answers. Cause it's boring to me to just listen to people's unsolved problems.
Yes, this very much a male vs female brain thing. Can confirm, mental health care providers have explained this to me many times.

Cuthbert 11-26-2020 12:38 PM
I try to offer help to my female friends.

EDIT - And male ones.

The Batlord 11-26-2020 01:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Cuthbert (Post 2146860)
I try to offer help to my female friends.

EDIT - And male ones.
Nice try, simp.

Marie Monday 11-26-2020 04:47 PM
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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2146877)
ah it was a joke about me being too rich to be punk

on the real, it's not that bourgeois to put an emphasis on priority

also, you can decide how much this matters

but the societal standard for men is way different on this, a woman is doing fine if she simply has a job...

a man is a ****ing loser if he's in his mid 20s and he's working that same job with no ambition
I think it's absolutely bourgeois. I agree that the standard for men and women is different, but this is exactly the kind of thinking which perpetuates that. And if a girl rejects a guy for reasons like that then good riddance I guess

Marie Monday 11-26-2020 04:58 PM
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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2146882)
to suggest that some things require more immediate attention than relationships?
oh no I agree with that of course. I meant judging people by how interesting their life is (as in whether they have an interesting job/are successful)

Lucem Ferre 11-26-2020 05:10 PM
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Originally Posted by jwb (Post 2146841)
It's honestly part of the male psyche to offer advice or solutions when someone talks about a problem.

I've had this same complaint from multiple women. "I just wanted you to listen, not solve the problem."

I guess I get the frustration on their end but on my end it's why even bring it up if you don't want answers. Cause it's boring to me to just listen to people's unsolved problems.
I suck at giving advice but I always listen.

Steph is always giving me the advice and it's usually good advise and I like it.

The Batlord 11-26-2020 05:53 PM
I think she's conveniently forgetting my great advice not to buy a house with her ex.

jwb 11-26-2020 08:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Lucem Ferre (Post 2146884)
I suck at giving advice but I always listen.

Steph is always giving me the advice and it's usually good advise and I like it.
that's cause you're the woman in the relationship

The Batlord 11-26-2020 08:32 PM
Lucey Ferre?


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