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Dr.Seussicide · 10-23-2010, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Laces Out Dan!

Im with the Doc. Work it little by little man. Gotta work up to those kind of exclamations. It can be a little overwhelming otherwise.

Dude, just btw, your sig is golden.

~~James~~ · 10-23-2010, 04:28 PM

Nah you see there was a thing going around on Facebook that said "Poke me if you've ever liked me, pm me if you fancy me now. Like this if you think i'm attractive. Put a loveheart if we're friends." So I was being very honest with all the statuses so decided to pm her. Tbh I feel quite good, it's cool how I was brave enough to do that, because i'm usually very pussyish with these things.

Alfred · 10-23-2010, 04:30 PM

I learned that **** the hard way some time ago. Fortunately, I think I may be getting a second chance with that same girl. I know now to let it all fall into place naturally.

Edit: knowing this James I can't really say I blame you for what you did.

Laces Out Dan! · 10-23-2010, 04:46 PM

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Originally Posted by Dr.Seussicide

Dude, just btw, your sig is golden.

Thaanks bud.

emostreetguitar562268 · 10-23-2010, 05:20 PM

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Originally Posted by James

Lmao, no. I don't see hermuch at school, different groups and stuff. But yeah it crashed and burned anyway. I got the standard I like someone else reply.

aw, sorry to hear that. at least you have the comfort of knowing that you were brave enough to do it! dont worry, you'll find someone else.

anyway, my day has been a bit...odd. i walked around all day in my hobo costume cuz the local theater group im in did a halloween book reading to some 3 and 4 yr olds at the library in our halloween costumes. so we walked from the theater to the library (2 blocks), from the library to the Pizza Hut (3 blocks), from Pizza hut back to the theater (5 blocks), and from the theater back to the library. you guys shoulda seen some of the looks we got. i was the hobo, one girl was a hollywood actress, one was an orange and green fairy, one was a pirate, one was in regular clothes but had an owl hat, and the one guy was in regular clothes but said he was supposed to be a buisiness man/male model. it was hilarious.

simplephysics · 10-23-2010, 05:44 PM

^ That sounds awesome. I'm going as Lara Croft this year.. what about everyone else?

Kaimon · 10-23-2010, 07:02 PM

Watched a group of dancers dressed up as zombies dance to "Thriller" and "Beat It" downtown today. Pretty cool.

~~Dirty~~ · 10-23-2010, 10:49 PM

James, I don't know how old you are but to be real you sound exactly like me like 4-5 years ago. Here's my advice, don't take any of this offensively I'm tryin to help, and yes I know I'm a newb.

Think about this. You are trying to get with a girl by getting at her in Facebook messages. Is that really a great idea? Put yourself in her head.. Some guy who she never really sees or talks to just messaged her asking to be her boyfriend. It's all about comfort level. That doesn't make her comfortable. And how can you two be comfortable together if you can't even ask her out in person?

Following a facebook thing like that? Bad idea, nothing good is gonna come out of that situation. Don't be desperate, you can't put this girl on a pedestal right now. If you really like this girl then don't follow stupid facebook messages that say "PM the girl you like". Did you have any reason to expect there was a solid chance she'd say yes? If not, stay realistic about things. And secondly, don't get bummed out and feel sorry for yourself since she said no. Because it was probably more likely she was gonna say that anyways. But if you start getting bummed out and feel self-pity, you'll just get bitter and start believing "nice guys finish last". Forget that phrase all together.

and if you don't see her much, then why do you even wanna date her? You can't adore somebody and then be in a good relationship with them. Everybody dude has girls that he sees and is like... damn i wanna bang this chick. But it isn't always possible, you gotta build some chemistry there. This aint the movies.

Alright, so now getting with this girl... You can only move forward from this point. Ok, so now she knows that you want her. This is where girls can really play with you so this is important. When you DO see her in the halls or wherever, don't be awkward. Easier said than done, but if you start acting awkward around her you are just digging your grave. Girls can play with you here because if she sees you're awkward and can tell you have her on that pedestal, then she might take advantage of your adoration.

Ok, think of getting with this girl like this: You are coming home from a party. You been drinkin a little, it's like 4AM or somethin and you gotta sneak in the front door of the house. Oh ****, it's locked... Is it a better idea to try to pry the door open and gradually enter or is it a better idea to run full speed and try to knock it down? If you go for it all in one shot, even if you get in, you're gonna break the damn door and you're parents are gonna wake up and be PISSED. That's trouble. If you try to pry the door open, your parents might hear you and come downstairs and be kinda mad... but they won't be as pissed off as they'd be if you stormed through the door, would they? Or let's say you get inside and nobody hears you but you **** up the door a little bit. In the morning, just say it was an accident... Bottom line of this story is that if you pry the door open, nothing that bad can really happen and if you barge through the door, then you're royally ****ed. Do you see how this relates?? With a girl, you gotta get that step in the door before you can open it. You can't try to hit a home run here, start with the first pitch and work the count to 1-0. Go for the single and you can work your way to home plate. Baby steps here is what I'm sayin.

Now, if you get into a position where she wants to hang out or do something, *as friends,* then don't friendzone yourself. Ok maybe the first time you hang out, whatever it's cool. But at some point, you have to say "no, im kinda busy that day with a thing with my friends, i'll get ahold of you next week and we'll do something." If you just do everything she says and agrees with everything, she'll start to really like you... But as a friend!!! You have to have a personality and I'm not saying you don't, but if you are too much into a girl, sometimes that personality gets shielded because you are trying to be as nice as possible.

Insane Guest · 10-23-2010, 11:06 PM

Woke up, watched some TV, listened to some music. Had some breakfast.
Got high, watched some TV, had a good one on one talk that I can't even remember, went to sleep for I don't know how long, felt like forever, woke up, watched Tv, I still feel pretty high, felt like typing so I went on here, after a couple of weeks.

TheCunningStunt · 10-24-2010, 02:34 AM

I'm waiting to go to the pub.
4 hours to go!
Pint, football and a burger. Yum.

10-23-2010, 04:30 PM	#13683 (permalink)
Alfred one big soul Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Canada Posts: 5,096	I learned that **** the hard way some time ago. Fortunately, I think I may be getting a second chance with that same girl. I know now to let it all fall into place naturally. Edit: knowing this James I can't really say I blame you for what you did. __________________ LAST.FM / VINYL COLLECTION / RYM

10-24-2010, 02:34 AM	#13690 (permalink)
TheCunningStunt love will tear you apart Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Manchester, UK. Posts: 5,107	I'm waiting to go to the pub. 4 hours to go! Pint, football and a burger. Yum. __________________ I don't feel and I feel great. Last FM

10-23-2010, 04:28 PM	#13682 (permalink)
~~James~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: Scotland Posts: 4,483	Nah you see there was a thing going around on Facebook that said "Poke me if you've ever liked me, pm me if you fancy me now. Like this if you think i'm attractive. Put a loveheart if we're friends." So I was being very honest with all the statuses so decided to pm her. Tbh I feel quite good, it's cool how I was brave enough to do that, because i'm usually very pussyish with these things.

10-23-2010, 07:02 PM	#13687 (permalink)
Kaimon Talking Cactus Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: Freebirds Posts: 201	Watched a group of dancers dressed up as zombies dance to "Thriller" and "Beat It" downtown today. Pretty cool.

10-23-2010, 10:49 PM	#13688 (permalink)
~~Dirty~~ Account Disabled Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: USA Posts: 981	James, I don't know how old you are but to be real you sound exactly like me like 4-5 years ago. Here's my advice, don't take any of this offensively I'm tryin to help, and yes I know I'm a newb. Think about this. You are trying to get with a girl by getting at her in Facebook messages. Is that really a great idea? Put yourself in her head.. Some guy who she never really sees or talks to just messaged her asking to be her boyfriend. It's all about comfort level. That doesn't make her comfortable. And how can you two be comfortable together if you can't even ask her out in person? Following a facebook thing like that? Bad idea, nothing good is gonna come out of that situation. Don't be desperate, you can't put this girl on a pedestal right now. If you really like this girl then don't follow stupid facebook messages that say "PM the girl you like". Did you have any reason to expect there was a solid chance she'd say yes? If not, stay realistic about things. And secondly, don't get bummed out and feel sorry for yourself since she said no. Because it was probably more likely she was gonna say that anyways. But if you start getting bummed out and feel self-pity, you'll just get bitter and start believing "nice guys finish last". Forget that phrase all together. and if you don't see her much, then why do you even wanna date her? You can't adore somebody and then be in a good relationship with them. Everybody dude has girls that he sees and is like... damn i wanna bang this chick. But it isn't always possible, you gotta build some chemistry there. This aint the movies. Alright, so now getting with this girl... You can only move forward from this point. Ok, so now she knows that you want her. This is where girls can really play with you so this is important. When you DO see her in the halls or wherever, don't be awkward. Easier said than done, but if you start acting awkward around her you are just digging your grave. Girls can play with you here because if she sees you're awkward and can tell you have her on that pedestal, then she might take advantage of your adoration. Ok, think of getting with this girl like this: You are coming home from a party. You been drinkin a little, it's like 4AM or somethin and you gotta sneak in the front door of the house. Oh **, it's locked... Is it a better idea to try to pry the door open and gradually enter or is it a better idea to run full speed and try to knock it down? If you go for it all in one shot, even if you get in, you're gonna break the damn door and you're parents are gonna wake up and be PISSED. That's trouble. If you try to pry the door open, your parents might hear you and come downstairs and be kinda mad... but they won't be as pissed off as they'd be if you stormed through the door, would they? Or let's say you get inside and nobody hears you but you up the door a little bit. In the morning, just say it was an accident... Bottom line of this story is that if you pry the door open, nothing that bad can really happen and if you barge through the door, then you're royally *ed. Do you see how this relates?? With a girl, you gotta get that step in the door before you can open it. You can't try to hit a home run here, start with the first pitch and work the count to 1-0. Go for the single and you can work your way to home plate. Baby steps here is what I'm sayin. Now, if you get into a position where she wants to hang out or do something, as friends,* then don't friendzone yourself. Ok maybe the first time you hang out, whatever it's cool. But at some point, you have to say "no, im kinda busy that day with a thing with my friends, i'll get ahold of you next week and we'll do something." If you just do everything she says and agrees with everything, she'll start to really like you... But as a friend!!! You have to have a personality and I'm not saying you don't, but if you are too much into a girl, sometimes that personality gets shielded because you are trying to be as nice as possible.

10-23-2010, 11:06 PM	#13689 (permalink)
Insane Guest Music Addict Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: CA Posts: 1,322	Woke up, watched some TV, listened to some music. Had some breakfast. Got high, watched some TV, had a good one on one talk that I can't even remember, went to sleep for I don't know how long, felt like forever, woke up, watched Tv, I still feel pretty high, felt like typing so I went on here, after a couple of weeks.