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View Poll Results: Physical punishment aganist children. Acceptable or Unacceptable?
Acceptable 50 56.82%
Unacceptable 38 43.18%
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Old 02-01-2011, 03:04 PM   #431 (permalink)
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Haven't read the whole thread, but all I have to say, being a teenager myself and seeing kids grow up, they need a ****ing spanking. It's amazing how bratty and bitchy some kids get, I'd like to hit them myself. It's really frustrating seeing a a 7 year old kid throwing a tantrum in the supermarket because they won't get what tthey want. Hit that kid, and teach them a lesson. It's not abuse, it's good parenting.
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Old 02-01-2011, 04:42 PM   #432 (permalink)
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Haven't read the whole thread, but all I have to say, being a teenager myself and seeing kids grow up, they need a ****ing spanking. It's amazing how bratty and bitchy some kids get, I'd like to hit them myself. It's really frustrating seeing a a 7 year old kid throwing a tantrum in the supermarket because they won't get what tthey want. Hit that kid, and teach them a lesson. It's not abuse, it's good parenting.
I have to say that is one thing that pisses me off. I see a kid running around crying throwing a fit because of what ever the reason is and I see the parent trying to reason with a child. Recently I saw a mother walking slowly after he child texting. I wanted to punch her in the head because the kid is doing what it knows best throwing a fit to get what it wants.

My ex girlfriend (as much as I loathe her) was raising her child well from what I saw when dating her. She touched something she was not supposed to touch she was told no. She did it again she was told no. She did it a third time she was told no and smacked on the hand and put in her crib.
It worked pretty well.
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Old 02-01-2011, 05:09 PM   #433 (permalink)
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I got a couple of spanks when I was a kid, and then I never repeated what I did to earn them.
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Old 02-01-2011, 05:22 PM   #434 (permalink)
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I got my ass beat a few times and I still did the crap that caused the beating in the first place just to piss them off.
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Old 02-01-2011, 05:34 PM   #435 (permalink)
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Allright. I got one hit on the ass. I can't remember it, apparently it wasn't hard at all. Nevertheless, except that one time. But I already said, that probably was self defense .
Self defence? Not sure exactly what you mean by that. Self Defence is an act of violence in order to defend yourself against an attacker. You don't hit a child in self-defence. All I'm saying is, yes, there was a time when your parent felt it necessary to spank you in order to show you just how bad a thing you had just done, and to ensure you never, ever did it again. That is what physical discipline is for. There are some things that you don't Get a second chance with, many things that if you do them once and survive, you are very, very lucky. Does the fact that your dad hit you make him a bad person because he hit you once? We're not advocating hitting your children at every opportunity, we're saying it shouldn't be outlawed because some people take it too far.

Personally, i would prefer if someone smacked me if it made it more sure that I would not do it again, rather than to "trust" that I will learn my lesson verbally.
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Old 02-01-2011, 07:10 PM   #436 (permalink)
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Wow... more people said 'yes.' That's pathetic. Sorry if I sound a bit mean, but it is.
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Old 02-01-2011, 07:13 PM   #437 (permalink)
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Sounds like someone wasn't beaten enough.
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Wow... more people said 'yes.' That's pathetic. Sorry if I sound a bit mean, but it is.
Why is that pathetic? I'm surprised there weren't more "yes" votes. If the poll was still open I'm sure there would be.
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I'm actually shocked there are not more yes votes.
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Old 02-01-2011, 09:56 PM   #440 (permalink)
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I'm shockes people think it isn't okay to use the best and more effective method to discipline kids.

I find it ridiculous when 12 year old kids are disciplined and sent to their rooms with a laptop, Xbox, tv, phone, iPod, it's a ****ing dream world in there.
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