Awkward social situations

djchameleon · 02-04-2011, 05:25 AM

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Originally Posted by ThePhanastasio

I hate talking to exes. Even if I still think they're good people and we parted on good terms, I still find it uncomfortable talking to them. I mean, what do I talk about? "Hey, we used to f*ck all the time? Remember that? Good times."

if you are friendly with your ex like you left on good terms. talk about what's currently going on in their life but exclude questions about if they found someone new, if they offer up that information try to change the subject or straight up tell them you don't want to her about their new S.O.

Bloozcrooz · 02-04-2011, 05:36 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

if you are friendly with your ex like you left on good terms. talk about what's currently going on in their life but exclude questions about if they found someone new, if they offer up that information try to change the subject or straight up tell them you don't want to her about their new S.O.

At least you dont have to talk to your x...im legally obligated to that privilege for years to come. I stay civil for the sake of the obvious, but iniating topics of discussion with her is not appealing most the time.

Howard the Duck · 02-04-2011, 05:43 AM

awkward is when I'm dating somebody new and I bump into my ex with her somebody new

djchameleon · 02-04-2011, 05:47 AM

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Originally Posted by Boozinbloozin

At least you dont have to talk to your x...im legally obligated to that privilege for years to come. I stay civil for the sake of the obvious, but iniating topics of discussion with her is not appealing most the time.

yeah because of how it ended between you two that's why you dont really want to talk to her much.

I have about 3 exes or so that I still talk to. The rest of them I cut them out of my life forever!! they aren't worth talking to anymore.

djchameleon · 02-04-2011, 05:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Il Duce

awkward is when I'm dating somebody new and I bump into my ex with her somebody new

that isn't too bad, I just introduce everyone to each other like it's no big deal. I try to make it seem as normal as possible.

Howard the Duck · 02-04-2011, 05:50 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

that isn't too bad, I just introduce everyone to each other like it's no big deal. I try to make it seem as normal as possible.

not when my ex is pretending she didn't see me for fear of me gossiping to her someone new

djchameleon · 02-04-2011, 05:51 AM

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Originally Posted by Il Duce

not when my ex is pretending she didn't see me for fear of me gossiping to her someone new

oh okay, she's the one making it awkward then lol.

Bloozcrooz · 02-04-2011, 05:55 AM

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Originally Posted by djchameleon

yeah because of how it ended between you two that's why you dont really want to talk to her much.

I have about 3 exes or so that I still talk to. The rest of them I cut them out of my life forever!! they aren't worth talking to anymore.

Funny thing im sure you read up on the story I posted about the situation. Since your making references to how it ended, but that actually wasnt it. We still messed around afterward even though she started seeing somone else and I had...extracurricular activities as well. We finally just kind of stoppped and let it go. As for other x's every now, and then they will ask if I still play, and sing at all. Thats about the extent of it. There are few I will speak to though, and fewer that want to speak to me..lol

s_k · 02-04-2011, 06:32 AM

I don't get it. How can people be together for years and not wanting to see eachother after that anymore? I dunno, I wouldn't want a relation with someone I don't consider a friend aswell

. Maybe that's the diff.

Howard the Duck · 02-04-2011, 06:36 AM

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Originally Posted by s_k

I don't get it. How can people be together for years and not wanting to see eachother after that anymore? I dunno, I wouldn't want a relation with someone I don't consider a friend aswell

. Maybe that's the diff.

my ex's problem is that she's getting married soon and probably don't want her future husband hearing tales of us doing it like rabbits and engaging in rapeplay

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