I can't speak for Dirty but I choose to be single. I have went through some rocky relationships in the past and I want a break for a little bit. I still like to flirt and hit on women though. I choose to be single. It's not like we are giving relationship advice. We are giving advice on how to approach women confidently and to analyze different situations that happens to us.

It is sort of like a science and you have to go through trial and error tests.

I will give you an example.

Yesterday, I went into this liquor store. I was talking to the owner because I wasn't sure what type of whiskey I wanted to buy for friday night. He starts out by joking about why am I coming in asking for types of whiskey when I don't know what I want. He also said some bull**** about if you don't know what you want then you shouldn't be drinking with the big boys don't start now. This store owner looks to be about in his 50s.

A cute girl comes in and he asks her what she wants. She says that she's not sure yet and she's still looking. Does he give her a hard time like me? hell no. He flirts with her and uses to classic line about let me see your ID because you look like you could be about 15 or so and it better not be a fake ID. The lady pulls out her ID and dude snatches it from here and starts being all nosey. Asking here if she's from out of town because she has an Illinois ID. And asking if she knows some dude with her same last name. It turns out she was married to the guy he was asking her about but they got divorced or separated. She decides what she wants so he has to walk around to the back of the counter to get it. I start flirting with her and asking what would she suggest I get. She suggest Bacardi but I'm telling myself that's not really a whiskey so I disregard her advice instantly in my head. The guy comes back to the counter and he sees that i'm flirting with her and making her smile a bit so he tells me. Well since you don't know what you want come back friday when you have money and we will get you something. He was basically kicking me out of his store so he could make to the chick. She's 28 and he's 50 something. As I was leaving I told him..what the hell? you act like i'm trying to cockblock you or something then I walk away. I was pissed as hell on my way back home. As I was leaving I also noticed the chick looked down at my shoes. I'm about to feed into a stereotype but I don't care. Black women tend to look at guy's shoes first before checking out the rest of their outfit when they like a guy. You have to come correct and dress properly if you want to flirt with a black female.

I wasn't pissed that he took the girl I was talking to, I was pissed on the principle alone that he cockblocked me in a sense. He belittled me in front of her and that's mad disrepectful. When I was almost home I was kicking myself for not standing my ground and putting his old pimp ass on blast. He was pretty smooth and I respect his game. I don't respect how he was treating me. He was mad rude and out of place from jump. When I got home, I should've burned him up about how old he is and if he needs to refill his cialis prescription and tell him that if he doesn't want my money I can take my business elsewhere friday. Which is exactly what i'm going to do. I'm going to research online what I want to buy first then go to a different store.

So my open question to the rest of you that are going to participate in this thread. If you were in my shoes and he was kicking you out how would you have responded?


Thanks RezZ

I would have just insisted I wasnt through looking around yet. As if I were planning on buying something...and then after I stayed long enough to blatently eaves drop his lame pick up game...(knowing all the while he's growing more irritated at my presence)then id just leave and say I changed my mind. The prices are cheaper at another store...I just remembered... But..have a nice day sir.

good idea but I wanted to put him in his place. I felt like he was being super disrespectful to me from the beginning before the girl even entered the picture.

Yeah from what you said he just sounds like a tard. I probally wouldnt have payed him any mind till i picked up on the fact he was trying to run game and my being there was bothering him. I can tune out people acting in the manner he was most the time. I mean...who am i to be drinking with the big boys?? I would definatley just laughed at that comment...and the other..eh. Thats just me...ive really just gotten to where I dont give a ****. Unless im really whiskey drunk or something...then were talking Dr.Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Id say you handled it well overall. Look at the big picture..he's a bitter old man working at a liquor store and hitting on women he probally has no chance of getting... let him make his own misery.

Ooooh my god this is going to be so good.
I can't wait to see our forumgirls replying to this :D.

It if funny that you bring that up. I consider my two sides Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. My nickname is even Hyde. My wingman's name is Trap short for Venus Flytrap. I really don't like his methods but who I am to judge.

The reason he is called Venus Flytrap is because he says things that females would say to grab their attention and make himself seem like he's a very sensitive in touch with his softer side. He really is kind of like that but not as much as he puts on. So, he just looks pretty to the female eye and then when they fly near him he snatches them up. It's really their fault for falling for his smooth lines. They should know that no guy would actually say some of the things he says. You should see his facebook statuses and how he baits them to comment and like his status by saying certain things. It works like a charm all the time but I just don't agree with his approach. He is a little rough around the edges being a wingman as well but I need to train him some more.

For example, I was talking to this girl that works at the chinese restaurant. We are okay friends but I really like her. I know that she likes someone else so I don't pursue her anymore but I still playfully flirt. Well I said something to her and then he chimed in and made me look bad right in front of her. Even she noticed how mean/fucked up the comment was. He was back there laughing his butt off but what a dick move to pull and you are supposed to be my wingman. Your job isn't to put me down in front of potential targets. You are supposed to talk me up and show them my worth as a person. Show them my better positive sides.

I'm pretty sure they will bring their negativity in here but it's all good they are entitled to their opinions and I welcome them to come in here and say something.

Sounds like you stress a little about women. Just chill man..there are plenty out there. When your with them you want to be single and when your single you want a woman. As soon as you stop looking you find a good girl for ya. Just DONT GET MARRIED

I don't really think of it as stressing about women. I'm in the process of learning the ins and outs of women but it's very hard because you can't really just pin down certain types of women. They each have their own unique traits that you have to wing it and learn on the spot and play off of those traits to attract them if you want.

I'm treating this whole process like it is a science and I'm going through the trial and error stage at the moment.

I know that old saying, just be yourself and when the right one comes along she will find you when you least expect it.

I'm not really searching for a relationship but I would like to gain more female friends. I'd also like to have more booty call partners and other things. I like having my female friends compartmentalized into different categories. I'm sure s_k knows what I'm talking about.

still waiting for the advice ;)

What advice are you looking for? :confused:

you didn't explain your situation at all.

I'm not a mind reader.