The coming out thread - Take II

[The Batlord]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

I thought this video was a great way to help people realise that bisexuality is acceptable and not just "a phase":



And I don't believe that everyone knows what there sexuality is, there are many confused people (like me) and it can years to know what you feel you are (sexually) inside. It's great if you do know, but for people who don't, telling them "how hard is it to know" is a bit simplistic.

Well, after watching the girl in that video I can be sure that I'm not gay. Me-ow.

But seriously, this whole homophobia thing doesn't just hurt the non-heteros. If I hadn't of experimented a bit I would have been paranoid that I was gay just for the fact that I wasn't disgusted by gay sex. Sexuality is confusing enough without the BS, and all I want is to know what kind of porn to jerk off to so I can get back to playing video games.

[Rjinn]

Originally Posted by Vanilla

I thought this video was a great way to help people realise that bisexuality is acceptable and not just "a phase":



And I don't believe that everyone knows what there sexuality is, there are many confused people (like me) and it can years to know what you feel you are (sexually) inside. It's great if you do know, but for people who don't, telling them "how hard is it to know" is a bit simplistic.

Bis just don't know what they want OMGAH PICK ONE ALREADY!

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by Rjinn

Bis just don't know what they want OMGAH PICK ONE ALREADY!

Ikr!

[ladyislingering]

So I sought out the Kinsey scale and I was faced with such a result

The test failed to match you to a Kinsey Type profile. Either you answered some questions wrong, or you are a very unusual person.

sorry???

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Lol wtf?

[ladyislingering]

I think I'm a bit unusual in the sense that my partner is essentially gender neutral but I would not be bothered if they wanted to have sexual reassignment surgery because I love them unconditionally but wow, what a lame quiz.

[GuD]

...How is there a wrong answer on that test? I mean, idk. I'm always skeptical of these things. It's easy to say having sex with someone of the same gender is a turn on or however they word it but actually following through?

At least in my case, I've had plenty homosexual fantasies but of the times I've actually tried to engage with a man... it just wasn't totally happening for me, not at those times anyways.

[Paul Smeenus]

Originally Posted by WhateverDude

...How is there a wrong answer on that test?

I have to give up on many of those multiple-choice personality tests because none of the answer choices work for me.

[ladyislingering]

Originally Posted by WhateverDude

...How is there a wrong answer on that test? I mean, idk. I'm always skeptical of these things. It's easy to say having sex with someone of the same gender is a turn on or however they word it but actually following through?

At least in my case, I've had plenty homosexual fantasies but of the times I've actually tried to engage with a man... it just wasn't totally happening for me, not at those times anyways.

for real. sexuality and gender are both incredibly fluid concepts. how the hell could one answer "wrong" to anything regarding either is totally beyond me.

either way I love my boyfriend who is more of a woman than a man but has not decided on his pronouns. I call him "my beautiful wife" anyway.

[Scarlett O'Hara]

Originally Posted by WhateverDude

...How is there a wrong answer on that test? I mean, idk. I'm always skeptical of these things. It's easy to say having sex with someone of the same gender is a turn on or however they word it but actually following through?

At least in my case, I've had plenty homosexual fantasies but of the times I've actually tried to engage with a man... it just wasn't totally happening for me, not at those times anyways.

I have hooked up with girls, and I liked it. I just haven't gone all the way.