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Old 02-09-2012, 09:24 PM   #1 (permalink)
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From one private and prudish person to another, Jack, I'm really glad to see you comfortable enough with us to be honest. I know I'm still not most of the time, haha.
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Old 02-09-2012, 11:33 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I feel like everytime I tell people I have asexual tendencies they think I mean I'm bi-sexual or that I'm not interested in having relationships. I've kind of experienced in a small way what's it's like to tell people you're gay just because people don't understand what the hell I mean
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Old 02-10-2012, 04:48 PM   #3 (permalink)
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I feel like everytime I tell people I have asexual tendencies they think I mean I'm bi-sexual or that I'm not interested in having relationships. I've kind of experienced in a small way what's it's like to tell people you're gay just because people don't understand what the hell I mean
I know someone who is pansexual, and she told me once that people assume that she can't have a monogamous relationship with someone because of her sexuality, which isn't true at all.
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Old 03-06-2012, 12:59 PM   #4 (permalink)
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I know you guys are going to undoubtedly call bull**** on me but I think I might be bisexual. I've had crushes on girls, I'm turned on by girls and I would certainly date a girl. I just hate announcing this fact because I might get made fun of or told I'm only saying that for attention.
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Old 03-06-2012, 01:16 PM   #5 (permalink)
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I know you guys are going to undoubtedly call bull**** on me but I think I might be bisexual. I've had crushes on girls, I'm turned on by girls and I would certainly date a girl. I just hate announcing this fact because I might get made fun of or told I'm only saying that for attention.
A lot of bi girls get accused of that, but I believe you. What's also annoying is that some people think that bisexuality is a myth; that bisexuals are just gay people in denial or some other equally stupid belief.
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Old 03-07-2012, 10:08 AM   #6 (permalink)
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I know you guys are going to undoubtedly call bull**** on me but I think I might be bisexual. I've had crushes on girls, I'm turned on by girls and I would certainly date a girl. I just hate announcing this fact because I might get made fun of or told I'm only saying that for attention.
If it helps at all, I feel exactly the same although I'm male.
I'm not calling bullshit or anything, I think it's perfectly reasonable and something I'm equally uneasy about.
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Old 03-07-2012, 11:04 AM   #7 (permalink)
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I definitely subscribe to the idea that bisexuality is real; sure, there may be some that just don't want to admit that they're gay, but I see no reason why someone shouldn't be attracted to both sexes.
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Old 03-07-2012, 02:04 PM   #8 (permalink)
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I definitely subscribe to the idea that bisexuality is real; sure, there may be some that just don't want to admit that they're gay, but I see no reason why someone shouldn't be attracted to both sexes.
Well, so far we have had Dayvan Cowboy, Odyshape, Doctor Soft, Il Duce, Above and myself at least say that we either are or think we are bisexual.

You can't really just dismiss it, I suppose.

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Old 03-07-2012, 02:05 PM   #9 (permalink)
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Well, so far we have had Dayvan Cowboy, Odyshape, Doctor Soft, Il Duce and myself at least say that we either are or think we are bisexual.

You can't really just dismiss it, I suppose.
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Old 03-07-2012, 02:58 PM   #10 (permalink)
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I've considered it myself. The way I see it, with the amount of "mancrushes" and "girlcrushes" about, a huge amount of people are at least a little bi-curious.
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