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I think you’re in the best possible position, mindy.
You don’t come across as a hookup kinda guy to me, I imagine you prefer the trust, stability, and intimacy of a relationship, or at least ****ing someone you have an emotional connection to - therefore where you are right now is perfect. There’s no point pursuing anything but a hookup until you A) are comfortable with yourself and happy being alone, not seeking another person to make you feel good, B) until you know what you even want!, and C) with the right person it should be easy, it shouldn’t feel like work or “chasing,” or playing games.

Not being interested in anyone right now doesn’t have to mean anything other than you’re busy doing your own self work. Don’t let some beezy **** it up for you :D

Thanks for the kind words WWWP :)

I agree also, I am not looking for hookups but rather a stable trustworthy relationship is something I would really want.

Beezy is not a word.

totally

^ clearly not from the yay area

booooo

^that's the male herd mentality for ya, mindy

Omg I love your Kajillionaire av

I have a random question. Non-queers may also participate.

Have you ever been with/dated someone who had committed some crazy ass crime or something similarly bizarre?

Like I dated a guy for a bit years ago who had gotten into a car accident in which the other person died. Dude was supposed to turn himself in for vehicular manslaughter but he dipped to Denmark for 6 years or however long the statute of limitations was. I broke up with him shortly after. Lol.

Old Dolio is my spirit animal

Also no, no criminal ex for me. That's a ****ing wild story :eek:

I thought it was Avril Lavigne.

Not about to tell officer wwwp about any unsolved crimes

Dunno what you consider a crazy crime but this girl I used to mess with in rhode island used to rob guys with her babys dad by luring them to a motel room. That's a pro common thing though tbh.

We weren't in a serious relationship though just a casual trying. Her babys dad was in prison at the time.

Turkey LGBT: Four students arrested over artwork

Angola has decriminalized same-sex relationships

Some positive news, one less country that criminalizes same-sex relationships. Yay Angola!

*cries in Brexit excluding me from the glorious gayzone*

Who gay

Who up

Who gay

Japanese court rules gay marriage ban is unconstitutional


Booyah!!

Also:

'Two boys snogging was revolutionary': the greatest gay moments in cinema

Best queer moments in cinema recommended by queer filmmakers...very interesting :)

Lil Nas X’s Sexed-Up ‘Montero’ Video Has Changed Everything for Queer Music Artists



I didn't (and still don't) really think this guy has enough talent to sustain a long and fruitful career, but I think he's doing some interesting and important things with the residual popularity wave he's still riding.

Kehlani Tells Her Coming Out Story on TikTok

Gotta say, I'm a little confused about "bi" people who eventually figure out they're actually gay. But people are complex I guess.

Maybe they become gay over time

Angel Olsen Comes Out as Gay and Debuts New Music

OH EM GEE. So many out lesbians in music right now.



Can this be a lesbian love anthem now? :love:

As someone who called themselves “bi” before fully coming to the realization that I’m gay, it’s not because I’m complicated it’s because I never felt queer enough to claim the title due to internalized homophobia and a platter of the societal consumption and selling of women and the female form, as well as queer community gatekeepers treating me like I’m not costumed correctly to blend in with them.

It took me a long time to determine whether I was physically and romantically attracted to women, because it seemed like a result of mainstream conditioning, of the inherent (:rolleyes:) sexualization of women’s bodies in all media. I didn’t really know for sure until I was with a woman whether my attraction was authentic or cultivated. It ****ed with me a lot.

I get being closeted and coming to terms with your sexuality, societal pressure and all that, it's just that with bi people, I assume that they've tried both apples and oranges and decided they like both? So when someone at some point decides they like just oranges, I'm left wondering, but, wasn't there an obvious difference to you since the beginning?? Like, if you felt the real thing, what in the end you decide is for you, wouldn't that immediately cause a big alarm bell in your brain saying, wait a minute, I don't feel like this when I eat oranges, wtf was I doing there?? Is what confuses me. With bi people. Going full gay. And stuff.

But when you’ve ONLY had apples your whole life and only fantasized about oranges how do you know you’ll really like oranges once you try them????

Calling myself bi when I had still only been with men was almost like making room for there to be MORE gay in my future while keeping one foot in the familiar. Still honoring this piece that wasn’t quite figured out yet. I imagine this is the case for a lot of girls who do the bi to gay thing.

Ok, thanks for the explanation, that makes sense...

yeah that does make sense. I like how for each gay person their experience is so different that we've all come out of the closet, but each in a unique way.
Also I think it's so complicated because romantic love, sexual attraction, sexual pleasure, and infatuation are all different things and it can be hard to tell them apart. Like I can be infatuated with a guy in a platonic crush way, and I'm not sure I couldn't get sexual pleasure from a guy if it would be one I really liked.

And maybe people just change and they can't help it. Maybe sexuality is a lot more complicated than the binary way most people see it and nobody should feel obligated in feeling understood to be accepted. Being denied your sexual identity because others don't understand it is kind of homophobic and being homophobic is gay.

church

That's where they try to pray the gay out of you.

depends on the church

in celebration of the gayest of months I gave Hawk's supreme vagina poem a makeover. I hope this magically summons him to return
Happy pride month y'all

^^^^

:love::love::love:

Just watched Flightplan yesterday!

:beer: I haven't seen a Jodie Foster movie in a while, time to change that

Oh also, glad you're back! <3

So did you watch Flightplan or what? The Jodie Foster police are here!