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https://historycollection.com/these-...homosexuality/ All the Periods in History When Homosexuality Was Celebrated & Embraced” David Sharp, Ranker. n.d. “If you say being gay is not African, you don’t know your history” Bisi Alimi, The Guardian. September 2015. “The idea that African homosexuality was a colonial import is a myth” Bernardine Evaristo, The Guardian. March 2014. “Homosexuality in ancient Rome” Wikipedia contributors. Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. November 2018. “Women’s Legal Rights in Ancient Egypt” Janet H. Johnson, Fathom Archive. 2002. “Ancient Egyptian Sexuality: Life in Ancient Egypt” Caroline Seawright, Tour Egypt. August 2013. “China’s Misunderstood History of Gay Tolerance” Yuxin Zhang, The Diplomat. June 2015. “Homosexuality in Japan” Wikipedia contributors. Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. November 2018. “LGBT history in Uganda” Wikipedia contributors. Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. June 2018. “Mwanga II of Buganda” Wikipedia contributors. Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. March 2018. “Zande” Eva Gillies, UCLA. n.d. “Imbangala” Wikipedia contributors. Wikipedia, The Free Encyclopedia. January 2018. |
I believe homosexuality was derided by many as Greek degeneracy infiltrating Roman society. I don't know how it was perceived throughout all 1000 years of the Republic and Empire but Rome was at least more conservative and prudish than it gets credit for.
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This video says Romans only thought it was gay to bottom lol. The whole country was running on prison rules.
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Another mystery is how this branch of our species are so frequently ignorant of the erotic potential of their own prostate glands. Add to this the rigidly repressed history of male/male sexuality during wartime and we have more contradictions than drag queens often taking an active role. We are indeed a very strange species. |
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So to me, what you describe about enticing same-sex rears is not a mystery. We're social mammals and there's nothing in our biology that says males shouldn't have sex with other males, like homosexuality in so many other social mammals (like the famous giraffes where most of a male's sexual encounters are homosexual in nature). From a biology point of view, it seems reasonable to think that sexual relations between men would be promoted in many situations because it could strengthen bonds, promote cooperation (our specialty) and generally help satisfy various needs. I actually get the impression that males are more likely to be sexually compatible with other males (in terms of wants/desires, etc) than with women. As you point out, there's even a prostate gland that enjoys attention. In my opinion - in the absence of any culture/conditioning that says otherwise, the thought or act of homosexual activity should be expected to, by far, potentially turn most men on. Heterosexuality is just a human concept. It's not written in our DNA and when fantasy meets reality, parts of fantasy can melt away. Our sexuality, if you look at sexuality under intense scrutiny, doesn't actually fit into these neat categories. Generally speaking for heterosexuals, there are potential situations where they'd enjoy homosexual activities or possibly even romantic relationships with other same-sex individuals. Maybe, if society was different, they would. If I'm to use society's general descriptors for myself, then I am a heterosexual man. I've never been in love with another man and 99% of my fantasies are about women. However, there are a very few men I've found attractive and I assume part of those 99% can be explained by society's conditioning. I have actually had a couple of homosexual encounters that were enjoyable for me. If I was free to do so, I wouldn't mind exploring that more with the right partner. I don't think that's the norm, so what might set me apart from perhaps most other heterosexual guys is I think of sexuality as very rough descriptors and don't internalize it into my own identity. I am not homophobic, am fairly liberal and want to have enjoyable experiences. So I don't think I'm different in a fundamental way from most heterosexual guys, I just have a different way of thinking about it. What I think is most mysterious or interesting is why we create memes (as in moral codes, religious commands, beliefs) that control various aspects of our lives in seemingly detrimental ways, especially when it comes to sexuality. I have some inklings and one is that things that control our most basic urges seem powerful and feel important to us, like celibacy or perhaps fasting. These memes compete against other memes (gay is wrong / gay is okay are general competing memes), but for some reason the bad ones sometimes get ahead in competition with more tolerant ideas. I find that to be a very fascinating topic in general. |
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Not that I’ve found it a problem over the decades having found more than enough males willing to dance the bedroom tango. I even had a relationship for two years with another man and two women. Hard to explain other than suggesting our bedroom tango was an ‘eight way’. Think about it. |
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I hope you'll pardon such a personal question, but have you had many sexual encounters with men who consider themselves heterosexual? |
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I have a very vivid memory decades after the event of a man I hitched a ride home with. I had no intention of seducing him but somehow I ended up being his first male/male encounter. Not before or since have I experienced so an intense an episode. I’ll spare you the details but simply put somehow every part of our anatomy became as sensitive as the usual focus of male erotic experience. He returned interstate in the morning with me thinking I’d never see him again. Turned up at my door some years later with his fiancé suggesting a three way encounter. Now that’s one man I’d never want to share (unusual for me) so as kindly as I could I sent them away. SIGH ! WILT! SWOON ! One fairly consistent aspect of straight men’s behavior is if you actually get them into bed they more often than not will be the one who ‘bites the pillow’. An experience I had with four AFL footballers (VFL in those days). And no, don’t ask for names. For those of you not familiar with Australian Rules football AFL stands for Australian Football League & VFL for Victorian Football League. |
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Thanks for your candidness! |
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There do seem to be a lot more open relationships among gay people but I'm not really sure how people make that work. I kind of look at sex as an important glue in a relationship. Opening it up would (maybe, I have no personal experience in this) dilute the tension and glue that helps smooth out some of the usual problems when two people spend a lot of time together. In my inexperienced mind at least. If you have sex with other people, aren't you just going into the territory of friendship with benefits? Or does the love and appreciation of the other person simply go (sufficiently) beyond the physical to fix any potential hang-ups (jealousy, feeling of inadequacy etc)? |
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If I was single and they'd have me, I'd love to date hot couples :laughing: |
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Are these guys serious or just sending us all up ?
Either way it’s musically dull as dishwater. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a5YigWrQhqg |
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A fun little movie reimagining Pride and Prejudice in modern times and with an all gay (and very diverse) cast. It's well produced and surprisingly queer (I thought it was gonna pander more to mainstream tastes to become some kind of a cross-over hit but I guess being interesting to gay audiences is sufficient these days to secure some serious funding). I'm putting it here and not in the movie thread because I really don't think many non-gay people would be interested in seeing it. Also, it was nice to hear Perfume genius on the soundtrack. |
Is this a girl/girl love song? I can’t figure it out.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=saKLK4cGdig Hey, hey, hey I got a condo in Manhattan Baby girl, what's hatnin'? You and your ass invited So gon' and get to clappin' Go pop it for a player Pop, pop it for me Turn around and drop it for a player Drop, drop it for me I'll rent a beach house in Miami Wake up with no jammies (Nope) Lobster tail for dinner Julio serve that scampi (Julio!) You got it if you want it Got, got it if you want it Said you got it if you want it Take my wallet if you want it now Jump in the Cadillac, girl, let's put some miles on it Anything you want, just to put a smile on it You deserve it baby, you deserve it all And I'm gonna give it to you Gold jewelry shining so bright Strawberry champagne on ice Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Sex by the fire at night Silk sheets and diamonds all white Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like I'm talkin' trips to Puerto Rico Say the word and we go You can be my freaka Girl, I'll be a fleeko, mamacita I will never make a promise that I can't keep I promise that your smile ain't gon' never leave Shopping sprees in Paris Everything 24 karats Take a look in that mirror Now tell me who's the fairest Is it you? (is it you?) Is it me? (is it me?) Say it's us (say it's us) and I'll agree, baby Jump in the Cadillac, girl, let's put some miles on it Anything you want, just to put a smile on it You deserve it baby, you deserve it all And I'm gonna give it to you Gold jewelry shining so bright Strawberry champagne on ice Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Sex by the fire at night Silk sheets and diamonds all white Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like If you say you want a good time Well here I am baby, here I am baby Talk to me, talk to me, talk to me Tell me what's on your mind (what's on your mind) If you want it, girl come and get it All this is here for you Tell me, baby, tell me, tell me, baby What you tryna do Gold jewelry shining so bright Strawberry champagne on ice Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Sex by the fire at night (Sex by the fire at night) Silk sheets and diamonds all white Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like Lucky for you, that's what I like, that's what I like |
Many of these shots are obviously of brothers, not gay lovers. Very annoying unless whoever collected them knows something about gay incest in that era we don't.
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Oslo shooting: Norway attack being treated as Islamist terrorism, police say - BBC
This has been getting to me today. In short summary two people were killed tonight and dozens of others injured in what is assumed to be a terror attack/hate crime targeting a gay club in Oslo. Given slightly different circumstances this could have hit me or somebody I know. Wherever you are in the world, stay safe out there y'all. The world can be a ****ing cruel place |
I didn't know we had two Norwegians on the boards.
Yes, quite sad and scary. A stark reminder that even in the developed world, there are still plenty of people who want to harm others who are different than them. Btw, Norway is starting to build up a surprising number of these gun violence incidents, for Europe. |
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this is however the first time that the Norwegian LGBT+ community has been explicitly targeted in this way. Even though the death toll in Orlando, FL was significantly higher, it just hits closer to home when it's your own country, and one that you would think had gotten further than the US in regards to queer liberation |
Can we pause for a moment and focus on religion being a prime fountainhead for homophobia ? Given recent revelations of rampant pedophilia within various branches of Christianity how dare any church,including other religions, lecture us on sexual morality .
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If I may be so politically ‘incorrect’ as to quote just one nasty passage from the Koran :- ”Oh Lord! Let not our hearts to go astray after that thouhast once guided us, and give us mercy from before thee; for verily thou art He who guideth. O our Lord! For the day of whose coming there is not a doubt, thou wilt not fail the promise. As for the inifidels, their wealth, and their children, shall avail them nothing against God. They shall be fuel for the fire. After the want of the people of Pharoah, and of those who went before them, they treated our signs as falsehoods. Therefore God laid hold of them in their sins; and God is severe in punishing! Say to the infidels: ye shale be worsted, and to Hell shall be gathered together; and wretched the couch! Koran Sura 3 V 6 - 10. There are equally nasty passages in the Bible but biblical scholars have been openly questioning and criticising scripture for centuries without being burnt at the stake or stoned to death. |
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Here’s something to make some of you fairies drool. The Sydney Convicts rugby team. Winners of the first international rugby competition in San Fancisco. (?) Two of my closest friends were on the team. They now have two boys and are living in Spain after a narrow escape from Hong Kong.
https://sydneyconvicts.org/news/the-...c-2608552.html |
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That is unless you can’t discern the difference between knowledge and faith. If so there really is little point in discussing all this. Why is it our species has this urgent need to pretend we fully understand the reality we find ourselves in? It may be comforting to millions, it may be one method of influencing human behaviour for good or ill but is it really necessary at this stage of our evolution? Who is this Hawk ? Are you suggesting I’m an Islamophobe? If so be prepared to discuss Sura and verse of the Koran in detail. “And follow not that which of which thou hast no knowledge; because the hearing and the sight and the heart, - each of these shal be enquired of: And walk not proudly on the earth, for thou canst not cleave the earth, neither shali thou reach the mountains in height: All this is evil; odious to thr Lord.” Koran, Sura 17. V 38 - 40. |
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She's referring to OccultHawk, one of the more interesting members of our forum. And, yeah, he wasn't too crazy about Muslims. |
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@Ayn, I don't like religion either but what is framed as dislike of Islam because it's a religion often turns out to be dislike and prejudice against Muslims specifically. I suspect that also plays a role in the Norwegian sentiments you referred to |
Nope, you're not a true intellectual until you embrace rigid fundamentalist interpretations as a way to justify scapegoating immigrants for society’s problems.
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