As garish as it is I do not hate it.

It certainly leaves an impression.

The impression i get is he has a babydick

Insecure white guys smh.

Lol whatever dude looks like a black version of that David statue.

What is it with straight/cis dudes identifying every sex toy as a bilbo

We like hobbits.

A long iron bar or bolt with sliding shackles and a lock, formerly attached to the ankles of prisoners?

bilbo

This might possibly offend some and if so I'm sorry, but for myself, I am not hung up on sexuality at all. To fit myself into some fake, binary idea of who I am in regards to sexuality seems dishonest and like shoehorned into a social construct.

My honest expression of sexuality would be that I enjoy sex with women or men and very much both at the same time. I never fell in love with a guy and I generally prefer women, but I do enjoy some of the possibilities from sex with guys. Had I felt free to explore that more in my life, I might have (am monogamous and happily married).

Some people I wanna bang and most not. What's with all the shoehorning (not talking about shoe fetishism)?

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I could add that while I can't be sure, this is roughly what I believe most "straight" guys would feel like if unfettered by strict adherence to some idea of heterosexuality which I believe has little basis in biology.

In many if not most social mammal species, guys bang guys and still make babies with the ladies.

I get that, sexuality is complex and doesn't fit in a simple box. I put myself in the 'lesbian' box partly because it's simple and I happen to fit the box well, but mostly because the world is still so heteronormative that I feel like marking my gay territory, so to speak. For instance, even if you tell obnoxious drunk guys you're gay they still don't leave you alone. And it's also owning an identity that people have given you **** for. So for me identifying as gay is a way of asserting my sexuality until the world is ready to think about the subject like you do

what is it with lesbians sending you random pictures of them holding a ***** only as a segway to giving you their dissertation on the correct nomenclature of their sex toys like it matters. You broads are a trip. :laughing:

It was obviously a Frodo, you caveman.

smdh you dumbass

Men are so gross though

A lot of them, yeah.

If you put your hand on my dick do you expect me not to ***?

one of my roommates was having a 2 guy 1 girl 3some for 3 nights in a row and I reckon at that point you admit you just want to **** your mate eh?

Probably. Why not? I generally think a threesome like that is a lot more fun/interesting if you can have sex with both of them. You can get banged and have your dick sucked at the same time.

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I get that :)

I also think that these "boxes" are handy for things like constructing an easier narrative in order to f.ex. promote tolerance.

My personal pet peeve is toxic masculinity. I wish it was more talked about as I think it really corrupts the way men think about and relate to both themselves and to others.

I don't see anything offensive in your post, but also I think you realize it doesn't apply to everyone (I guess you'd be on the bi or pan scale). Labels help in a way simply to identify preferences. I identify as gay because I don't have any sexual interest in women (or rather it's so miniscule it's irrelevant). There are plenty of people like this and always will be, even if/when we all get over our collective hangups about sex.

I'm bi but i prefer women and have no romantic feelings towards men

I would say i am only romantically attracted to cis women but I'm sure there are "non binary" types etc that would also fall in... Caveman or not basically the dividing line for me is if you were born with pussy.

preach on, brother

It kinda gives me Steve Vai vibes.

Yes, you're right. I usually think of sexuality as a spectrum or perhaps a plot of many dimensions. We all place a little differently on that spectrum with some aligning towards the ends and some closer to the middle.

I don't quite think of myself as bi, but maybe others would. Generally speaking, if I find someone attractive in a striking or interesting way and I want to look at them, that person is very nearly always a woman. I don't consciously think of men in terms of romance or how they're sexually attractive or not.

However, if I were to have sex with a man (something I would like to explore more if I could), at that point I would realize that whether or not I find them attractive IS important to how much I want that to happen or not. So attractiveness in men IS something that I register, even if it happens mostly unaware.

All in all, thinking of men sexually takes conscious effort, but when I do that, I find it appealing. I guess it's a bit like thinking about an exciting sex toy you might wanna try. If me and some guy were the only two people left in the world stranded on a desert island, it's not impossible that I could be satisfied in either a sexual relationship or a romantic and sexual relationship with that other person, provided I found them attractive.

For me to think "wow, that guy's cute" is something that has happened so rarely in my life. Maybe a couple or a few times? Perhaps more, but I tend to forget. It could be from a lack of excercise. I do think I probably like younger guys and not macho men, so I have a vague preference :laughing:

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Sounds somewhat relatable :)

Ok yeah, it doesn't really sound like you're bi, maybe bi-curious at most. ;) Your attitude towards sex with men sounds a little like mine towards women, but my conclusion is that while I could probably have sex with women, it would almost certainly be bad sex. If you're not ogling something with desire, best not to go down that route, otherwise you'd just be putting your dick in a hole. I figure. Sex should be mostly about enjoying each others' bodies and desire isn't really something anyone should consciously work on.

Bottom line, if you're not fantasizing about dick, it's not for you. :D

What if you've been drinking tequila?

I don't mind poking my dick in a hole. I think people should free themselves of unfounded prejudice and seek out pleasure in various ways. As long as your actions are lawful, you're up front with your intentions and honest about who you are and cause more pleasure than pain, you should generally be in the clear as far as I'm concerned :)

As for sex between men, it seems natural to me. Although men and women are generally like venn diagrams in that there's a lot of overlap, there is a general trend in sexuality where men and women are a little out of sync. For one thing, men tend to want more (extremely common guy-complaint in hetero relationships). Guys tend to find it easier to detach sex from emotion and are generally very capable of enjoying butt stuff, being equipped with prostate glands that seem to love that for some reason. So in some ways, guys seem better suited as sexual partners for other men than for women. Not true in every case, of course.

The idea that sex is for reproduction is of course antiquated. Rather, in many social animals (mammals in particular), sex seems to be also or even more often for social bonding / glueing, also between same-sex individuals.

Hence, I think that a population of humans healthily expressing their nature would feature a lot more of men on men sexuality. I just feel like I'm probably a person with a fairly average / standard desires who's open minded, perhaps a little gluttonous. But bi-curious is probably a good description (have some experience, would like more).


I'm a teetotal :laughing: Also I never particularly enjoyed drunken sex. If I was drinking with a hot chick (or chack), I would rather pick her brains than her bean.

i like gay sex i just don't have any desire to get involved in a real relationship or do couple type ****. I don't feel that way towards guys and i don't feel that way towards the majority of women. Sexual attraction is a casual thing that doesn't mean romantic interest.

I'm not at all bicurious or confused though trust me i know what i like.

Me and jwb.. blowing dicks and breaking hearts <3

I hope jwb likes a pickle with cold fish because I see a Scandinavian aromantic comedy writing itself here

Luckily he likes both.

My joke but worse

Steph Yun Fat

No Yun-Fat because yun Chow Chow Chow

How Yun Sat when Sow Yun Fat?

This thread isn't exactly what it sounds like it would be.

Shut up, queer

Exactly.

Like.. a corner where two walls meet, but then it's like at an odd angle or with some odd shape.

You know, like the unearthly, dimension breaking geometry from Lovecraft's Dreams in the Witch House.

But with dick sucking.

Always a guaranteed improvement