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Marie Monday 12-04-2020 01:10 AM

Expecting anyone, even people who did not grow up in such an environment, to know all the ins and outs of very complicated gender structures sounds reasonable to you?
Sometimes the zeal to be progressive can actually flip over to the other side and become intolerant, or not aware enough of the struggles of people outside of a progressive bubble.

Marie Monday 12-04-2020 02:06 AM

It is what we're dealing with: 'everyone outside of your group'. The majority of people will not be malignant, just ignorant, even in my experience as a target for that kind of intolerance. Holland is relatively progressive of course, but even jn other places many people will mean well.
And even in progressive bubbles it seems like some people assert there are hundreds of genders. Expecting people to keep track of all of that without stumbling is unreasonable.

Marie Monday 12-04-2020 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147946)
also tangentially piping hot take

but the left will never EVER achieve anything without winning The Culture War

you can't have solidarity with a working class that has a regressive culture

Woke AI goes bleep

Marie Monday 12-04-2020 02:11 AM

But anyway, the point I was trying to make is simply that humanity and empathy is way more important than wokeness, and wokeness can get in the way of that when it's ill-considered.

jwb 12-04-2020 03:35 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147939)
that's great because we know that gender is not the same all around the world

so uh case closed

it's not the exact same but some attributes are more universal than others. There are fairly broad generalizations you can make about gender that apply regardless of the culture you are referring to.

This is what I mean by social construct being a misleading term. There's no one definition of life or what makes an entity a form of life. There are multiple competing definitions. There's no one definition of species or what differentiates one species from another. But life is still a natural phenomenon. So is speciation. The fact that it's complicated doesn't make it any less concrete a description of some underlying reality.

As WWWP said, people hate grey areas. To me, the gender abolitionist approach seems like they seize on the grey areas and then conclude that the category is invalid because it's not clear cut black and white. I'm perfectly willing to accept the grey areas and that doesn't make me think the category itself is problematic.

jwb 12-04-2020 03:58 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147964)
it seems we form categories out of necessity or assistance, but that these categories have only very loose biological basis

Does life or speciation have only a loose biological basis?

Or is it that categories only lack a biological basis when they deal specifically with humans. How curious.

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so as we enter a time where these categories become less necessary we see the strigency of these categories evaporating at the ends

in some societies there's already been more than one gender historically
that's just it. I'm not seeing any such evaporation of the category I'm seeing people who were previously miscategorized correcting the record and identifying with what they see as the proper category. The idea that this is just a transitional phase to removing the category altogether is just pure conjecture mixed with wishful thinking. Nothing more.

jwb 12-04-2020 04:38 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147972)
I would need to walk the convo back 200 yards to address the speciation bit (it's not comparable to gender)

please do address it

Because I think you draw a sort of distinction between what is biological and what is socially constructed that in reality is far less distinct than you realize

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but I'd say going from 2 gender identities to now maybe 100 or more, is an indication of gender moving to a spectrum like model

I do think it likely won't be in our lifetimes that we all adop Ze, Zey or whatevs but who knows
please... Name 10 major genders and try describing the functional differences between them

We're shifting from a binary distinction to a bimodal distribution i.e. a "spectrum". That isn't undermining the category. It's just adding contextual nuance

jwb 12-04-2020 04:48 AM

What?

Marie Monday 12-04-2020 05:17 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147952)
a bunch of grunting Five Finger Death Punch listening White Claw drinking no book reading Joe Rogan watching white men(and their trad wives) are not ever gonna wake up and be allies of socialism

it's the biggest leftist LARP of the day

nah even Mao knew there had to be a cultural revolution first

Yeah I don't necessarily disagree, I was teasing about the fact that your comment just came out of nowhere

Marie Monday 12-04-2020 06:37 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147951)
I live in the US south so ye my perspective is different

the expected is straight out transphobia and aggressive adherence to traditional gender roles

tbh I want these people obliterated, like OH wants to burn churches

We definitely have different perspectives, I think in Holland the intolerance is less aggressive than in the south of the US, and more caustic below the surface (even though it can be pretty ****ing aggressive here too). I do think that even with many of the worst people it's still best to just stay mature and not descend to their level of hostility

jwb 12-06-2020 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2147977)
when we talk about gender

it's a list of performative attributes

in nature men and women would often be indistinguishable to us...just very hairy androgeny

nah, they're pretty distinguishable lol. We're a sexually dimorphic species. Learn to biology.

OccultHawk 12-07-2020 03:26 AM

In the not so distant future reproduction through sexual fertilization and pregnancy will be obsolete. Not long after that people will probably stop using gender specific pronouns and even identifying as male or female. And like everything else people do that will be 100% biological because humans cannot escape biology. Even if we transfer our consciousness onto a microchip that microchip will be our biology.

The Batlord 12-07-2020 05:39 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2148563)
Biology...

unless you know what to look for it can be hard af to tell the difference between the sexes of plenty of species

humans really aren't that different

besides the obvious genitals there isn't a 100% physical difference really

men can be short, women can grow facial hair etc

This and also painfully fake Hillary fandom coming from the guy who's obsessed with "girls".

OccultHawk 12-07-2020 05:58 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2148583)
the bolded is so meaningless that it's convinced me that some supernatural force guides you as no biological explanation could do as to why anyone would put together those combinations of keystrokes

OK Casper

The Batlord 12-07-2020 07:51 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2148584)
is Hillary not a girl

She is a woman.

The Batlord 12-07-2020 09:06 AM

Is that why you love women? To not be queer?

OccultHawk 12-07-2020 09:09 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2148588)

What’s happened outside your consciousness that you’re aware of?

Hint: The answer is nothing. You wouldn’t know about it if you weren’t aware of it therefore it has to be happening in your consciousness. No sociologist knows anything that’s outside of what they know and everything they know is a part of their consciousness and a person’s consciousness is made up of atoms arranged into neurons and synapses and other physical manifestations that all exist inside your body. Therefore, everything is biological. There’s no thought, emotion, idea, or understanding that you have or ever will have or ever can have that isn’t physical and biological.

jwb 12-07-2020 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2148563)
Biology...

unless you know what to look for it can be hard af to tell the difference between the sexes of plenty of species

humans really aren't that different

besides the obvious genitals there isn't a 100% physical difference really

men can be short, women can grow facial hair etc

actually not all species are sexually dimorphic but humans are. That's the distinction you don't seem to get.

There are physiological differences beyond sex organs as well. Pointing to anomalies doesn't change that. There's a reason beyond social conditioning why men and women compete in separate sports leagues.

OccultHawk 12-07-2020 11:36 AM

Earthworms **** themselves and get pregnant.

The Batlord 12-07-2020 11:37 AM

You should give that a shot.

jwb 12-07-2020 11:02 PM

Averages are all there ever are though. Once again pointing out anomalies is not a refutation of a trend.

jwb 12-07-2020 11:17 PM

No it's not. Men and women are visibly distinguishable the vast majority of the time. In terms of physiological differences, the fact that some women are taller than some men or more athletic that some men is just a function of the fact that there's also a spectrum within each sex based on these categories... So the high end of the female spectrum overlaps with the low end of the male spectrum.

jwb 12-08-2020 12:21 AM

Humans are smart, except when they have an extra chromosome

Elph is in extra chromosome mode

Marie Monday 12-08-2020 05:45 AM

Isn't sexually dimorphic that there are discrete differences instead of a continuous scale, like the colour of ducks? That doesn't apply to humans, apart from sexual organs.
I don't see what the point is though. What does it matter whether male and female sex are distinguishable or not?
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Originally Posted by elphenor (Post 2148710)
90s media taught me all it takes is a slender build and long blonde hair on a guy for an awkward transphobia bit to occur

Well of course. I'm a cis girl but its not like that has ever mattered to anyone who is intending to discriminate. What point is that supposed to prove though, it just means that the hostility depends on how people perceive you instead of who you are, and it sets in as soon as you don't conform to gender norms.

OccultHawk 12-08-2020 06:41 AM

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we'd all look in nature
As opposed to where?

jwb 12-08-2020 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by Marie Monday (Post 2148732)
Isn't sexually dimorphic that there are discrete differences instead of a continuous scale, like the colour of ducks? That doesn't apply to humans, apart from sexual organs.
I don't see what the point is though. What does it matter whether male and female sex are distinguishable or not?

not necessarily. All it means is this:

distinct difference in size or appearance between the sexes of an animal in addition to difference between the sexual organs themselves.

Some instances of sexual dimorphism are more obvious than others but there are often scales within the sexes of sexually dimorphic species. Male lions are bigger on average than female lions but also some m male lions are bigger than other males and the same with females. Birds with distinct color patterns in the males can vary from male to male etc.

As for whether it applies to humans, we have lower levels of sexual dimorphism compared to some other species but still pronounced enough to be both recognizable and relevant:

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Sexual dimorphism refers to differences in size and shape between females and males of the same species. The term sexual dimorphism is usually used only for the secondary sexual characteristics, which are unrelated to reproduction. Some examples of sexual dimorphism include differences in stature, weight, morphology of the face, cognitive development, mortality, and disease prevalence. Although humans exhibit low levels of sexual dimorphism compared to other animals, differences between females and males are numerous. Evolutionary, sexually dimorphic traits develop through the process of sexual selection. Furthermore, mating system, body size, gender roles, and quality of environment also play an important role in determining the levels of sexual dimorphism. Sexual dimorphism has an important place in biological anthropology. In bioarchaeology and forensic anthropology, morphological and metric traits are used to estimate sex of the skeletal remains, while in studies of human evolution the level of sexual dimorphism is used to reconstruct social behavior. Generally, the majority of studies tend to focus on adults, because sexual dimorphism is not well pronounced before puberty.
https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/...same%20species.

Marie Monday 12-08-2020 09:55 AM

Oh sure in that case it's fair to say humans are dimorphic

jwb 12-09-2020 02:38 AM

Which exists outside of nature apparently

Are beehives and ant colonies unnatural? Cause they cooperate on a level we could hardly dream of.

Psy-Fi 12-09-2020 05:59 AM

India's rape laws don't cover transgender people

jwb 12-09-2020 10:30 AM

lol I also said bees

It's true though. Social organization is part of nature.

jwb 12-09-2020 10:35 AM

Nah lobsters weren't made in the image of god like apparently you think humans were.

jwb 12-09-2020 10:41 AM

It seems like you have basic platitudes you will just repeat instead of trying to explain the logic behind them

You might be right but explain to me where the distinction lies and why. You can mock it all you want but it is a fact that there are species that are actually more socially oriented than humans, including some insects already mentioned and iirc some species of moles or whatever. The term for these species is eusocial, which though we are socially oriented we are not eusocial.

Marie Monday 12-09-2020 10:45 AM

omfg can we have less lobsters and more queer **** here please

The Batlord 12-09-2020 10:53 AM

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Originally Posted by Marie Monday (Post 2149007)
omfg can we have less lobsters and more queer **** here please

Now you know how I feel with all astrology ****.

Marie Monday 12-09-2020 11:06 AM

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Originally Posted by The Batlord (Post 2149009)
Now you know how I feel with all astrology ****.

yeah I know, astrology should have its own thread too if the topic flares up again

The Batlord 12-09-2020 03:01 PM

You know I'm sure there's an entire Subreddit full of stoners and grifters for that.

Marie Monday 12-09-2020 03:13 PM

there's probably a subreddit for every single topic on this forum, yet here we are

OccultHawk 12-09-2020 03:31 PM

Reddit is a miserable medium. I can’t even stand to try to read it. I think it’s because of the up button. Plus, like Facebook it’s cumbersome and inconvenient. Twitter is even worse. It seems the more worthless the medium is the more popular it becomes.

Psy-Fi 12-11-2020 03:50 PM

A Michigan judge rules companies don't have to serve gay customers

goldendoodle 12-13-2020 01:45 AM

Um well. As for on-topic things. I think Taylor Swift is a deeply closeted/repressed bisexual (she hardly makes any sense as a human being otherwise) cosplaying as a Relatable Straight Girl due to terrifying levels of fame-induced neurosis/image obsession and also, ofc, desire to retain her homophobic normie fanbase because $$$. I have been saying this for years and years and I am correct.
Also some of her songs are just extremely gay. Will elaborate later if anyone wishes.


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